Where are YOU on the 'emotional scale'? Does it have to be a rolocoaster?

Hello, dearest HQ news reader!
How is your HQ today? :)

Funny thoughts:
In my holistic healing practice (see http://www.nyhealing.com/) I've created a Holistic Intelligence™ term long time ago and used it for many years, and it perfectly made sense to me, until recently… I’ve suddenly realized that not many can relate to it or even understand what exactly I mean by it. I thought to myself - hmmm… an interesting discovery!

And even though some people around me responded very positively onto this term and genuinely loved how these words sounded, I’ve realized that perhaps most of all they liked how it made them feel when I used this intriguing term in relation to their thought process, their emotional reaction, their behavior, etc. For instance, when I’d say -‘You seem to be very holistically intelligent’ …, or ‘Your HQ seem to be quite high – your holistic being knows what to do’…, or something along these lines) – folks would first look at me as if I’m speaking Chinese (or any other foreign language in that sense); then they usually smiled with some sort of recognition in their eyes, and then the acceptance of this truth about themselves would come to some… – such a journey :) And still, most of them had no idea what I was talking about and referring to… Interesting, hah? No clue. They just liked a nice feeling it created in them , but not necessarily understood the meaning of anything... That made me think, again and again, is it really all about feeling good, is it not?

Which in turn, made me think again and again that I do have to write about Holistic Intelligence™ and bring my own unique understanding of this mind-blowing (at least for me it's literally 'mind-blowing' :) philosophy and methodology to the World. And... in accordance with the Universal Laws, because I have a clear solid Intention; am thinking about it with a Focus; acting in a congruent direction; feeling really good about it; and am allowing it to come in all these beautiful manifestaions, - my creation will actualize soon in a form of a website(s), ezine, articles, manuals, and a book(s)! I just know that... Isn't it cool? :)

OK. For those who read my previous postings and still want to find some clever answers to the multiple questions of What? Why? and How? - please continue reading...

I hope you had a chance to think about WHY we do the things we do. What really motivates you? What are you driven by? Do these words have a special meaning to you – Wellness; Well-being; Mission; Integrity; Living on Purpose; Manifesting your Dreams; Living your Destiny?

And if you did think about this along with many other questions which you find rather difficult to bring satisfying answers to, let me ask you again - WHY do you think we often find ourselves in a place of feeling bad, in a dark place of lacking something? When we’re lacking passion, hopefulness, happiness and joy, when we feel lonely or helpless, - as a result of being in that 'dark place of lack' we inevitably become depressed, miserable, disappointed, hopeless, frustrated... Have you noticed that when we’re lacking safety, security, assurance, confidence, when we feel insecure and unsafe, we become restless, angry, panicking, or fearful, anxious, and depressed? When we lose hope, when we’re lacking direction, when we lose our true selves in a fast pace of our everyday life, what begin to happen to us? Who do we become? What do we attract into our reality? And HOW can we get out of those 'not feeling so good' places?

What happens to us when we find ourselves in a 'dark place of lack' feeling really bad while in a process of manifesting our basic, naturally programmed, original intention to ‘feel good’?

Well… I think it is really interesting to find an answer to this one :)
As a psychologist, I can say that we usually find or create all possible rationalizations for WHY we can’t be happy now (because of a-b-c); why we can’t now (or ever) have x-y-z; why we now can’t do c-b-a; why we can’t go for z-y-x; etc. etc... And, then, after we rationalized everything to a fault, 'strangely enough' we find ourselves even more depressed, anxious, fearful, guilty, overwhelmed, etc. as if it wasn't bad enough in a first place... We often find ourselves falling into the abyss of negative energy flowing all over while creating and attracting more of what we DON'T want to feel, or DON'T want to have, or DON'T want to be… And then it becomes difficult to find a healthy way out…Really difficult. I know how it is...

What if we can stop operating by default and will take control of creating our own reality in a way we really want it to be… Is it possible?

I think it would definitely serve us if we eventually learn to make all our decisions from a ‘feeling good’ place and these decisions will be driven by this ‘pleasure principle’ ( we are not talking about self-distracting or self-sabotaging behaviors here, it’s a different chapter :).
Just think about it - if we raise our own vibration to align with the Source energy, i.e. we do our part, the Universe always responds with the same energy to match the frequency we vibrate on. It's a fact. We already are more or less familiar with this and have plenty of evidence to it... Quantum realms again? Or just a thought from an expanded awareness? You decide :)

Next sessions will be about Dreams, Goals, Decisions, Beliefs, Values, and of course... about my favorite concept ever - the Holistic Intelligence™ . Positive and negative states. Emotional and Spiritual Intelligence. And what does it mean to you. Enjoy your thinking and feel good! :)

As always, you can contact me for any of the above (or below :) via HQ@earthlink.net or use any of 'My Links' on the right.

IT’S YOUR LIFE. LIVE BIG. FEEL GOOD!
See you next week. Comments are welcomed.
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